The Jotlily Blog

Words from one lily to another

This blog is Sanni's space to write honestly — about mental health, about the long and winding road to finding the right support, about self-love, and about all the things that are still too rarely talked about.

Nothing here is written from a place of having it all figured out. It's written from the middle of the journey, for people who are in the middle of theirs.

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Some posts on this blog discuss mental health struggles, suicidal ideation, therapy experiences, and psychiatric hospitalisation. Each post includes a content warning at the top. Please prioritise your wellbeing while reading. If you need support, visit

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I was 13 the first time I sat across from a therapist. I was 37 when I finally found one who actually helped. That's 24 years. And nobody taught me how to find the right one.

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Therapy & Finding Help

The Right-Fit Therapist Toolkit Is Here — And It's Everything I Wished I'd Had A Long Time Ago

2026 · Sanni Bowen · 10 min read
After 24 years of sitting in therapy offices that felt wrong, I finally found the right therapist — and then I made the guide I wished had existed when I started searching. This is the story behind The Right-Fit Therapist Toolkit, and why I created it for you.
📖 42 pages
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From One Lily to Another isn't just Sanni's blog — it belongs to the whole community. If you have a story to tell, an experience to share, or something you wish someone had told you when you were struggling, we'd love to hear from you.

You can write anonymously. You don't need to be a writer. You just need to have something real to say — and we'll help with the rest.

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I never thought anyone would want to read what I had to say. But writing it down — and having someone read it and say 'me too' — changed something in me. If you have a story, share it. Someone out there needs to hear exactly what you have been through.

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