Welcome to the Garden

A community built on understanding

Jotlily is more than a platform โ€” it's a garden of people who have been through hard things and chosen to grow anyway. Here, no one is above anyone else. No struggle is too small or too big. No one has to explain themselves before they're welcomed in.

We call ourselves lilies because, like the flower, we have endured storms that others might not see โ€” and we bloom anyway. This is your space too, whoever you are and wherever you're coming from.

๐ŸŒธ Radically inclusive
๐Ÿ”’ Safe & private
๐ŸŒ Global community
๐Ÿค Peers supporting peers
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Your Story Matters

Share your experience

One of the most powerful things you can do for someone who is struggling is let them know they are not alone. Sharing your story โ€” however small or unfinished it feels โ€” can be the thing that helps another lily take their first step.

Our community is a space where real, honest stories are welcomed. You don't need to have it all figured out. You don't need a happy ending. You just need to be willing to show up as you are.

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Anonymous if you need to be

You choose how much to share and whether to use your name. Your comfort and safety always come first.

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Responded to with care

Stories shared in our community are met with empathy, not advice or judgement. We listen first.

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A lily's story

"I never thought I'd talk about this with anyone. But writing it down here โ€” even just a few lines โ€” made me feel less alone than I have in years. Someone replied within an hour. Just two sentences. It was enough."

โ€” A Jotlily member


๐ŸŒธ I felt this ๐Ÿค Me too ๐Ÿ’™ Thank you for sharing

This is a fictional example. Real stories are private and only visible to logged-in community members.

Peer Support Groups

Between Lilies

Between Lilies is a small, facilitated group session where community members come together to share, listen, and support one another. These sessions are intentionally kept small โ€” because real connection needs space to breathe.

Sanni facilitates each session, keeping the environment safe, balanced, and gently guided. There is no script, no pressure, and no expectation to share more than you're comfortable with.

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When

Sessions are scheduled regularly. Sign up to be notified of upcoming dates.

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Format

Video call ยท Small group ยท Facilitated by Sanni

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Investment

โ‚ฌ15 per person per session

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You are not the only one

Hearing others share experiences similar to yours can be profoundly reassuring. You are never as alone as you feel.

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Grow together

There is something uniquely healing about a small group of people who choose to show up for each other, week after week.

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Safe and confidential

What is shared in Between Lilies stays in Between Lilies. Every participant agrees to our community guidelines before joining.

Events & Meetups

Come together

From scheduled Between Lilies group sessions to community conversations and special events โ€” there is always something happening in the Jotlily garden. All events are online and open to members worldwide.

Coming Soon
Group Session

Between Lilies โ€” Open Session

A facilitated open group session for any community member who wants to connect, share, and be heard.

๐Ÿ’ป Video call ๐ŸŒธ Small group
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Community Event

Lily Talks: Let's Talk About Anxiety

A themed community conversation about living with anxiety โ€” sharing strategies, experiences, and simply being heard.

๐Ÿ’ป Video call ๐ŸŒธ Open to all members
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Workshop

Self-Care in Practice

A gentle, interactive session exploring practical self-care habits that actually fit into real life.

๐Ÿ’ป Video call ๐ŸŒธ Limited spots

Dates and times will be announced soon. Create a free account to be notified when new events are scheduled.

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The garden is still growing

Jotlily is a living, growing community โ€” and there is so much more being built. Here's a glimpse of what's coming for our members.

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Community Forum

A dedicated space where members can post, reply, and connect around topics that matter โ€” from anxiety and healing to self-love and everyday life.

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Member Profiles

Create your own lily profile โ€” share as much or as little as you like, and connect with community members whose journeys resonate with yours.

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Group Messaging

Private and group messaging between community members โ€” so the connections you make in Between Lilies sessions can continue beyond the session itself.

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Our Guidelines

How we show up for each other

Jotlily is only as safe as the care we all bring to it. These aren't rules imposed from above โ€” they're the values our community has agreed to live by, because we understand how much it matters to feel truly safe when you're being vulnerable.

All members agree to these guidelines when joining Jotlily. Anyone who does not honour them may be removed from the community.

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Listen more than you speak

This is a space for hearing each other, not fixing each other.

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What's shared here, stays here

Respect the privacy of every member. Never share someone's story outside this community.

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No judgement, ever

There is no wrong way to feel. Respond with empathy, not opinions about how someone should be handling things.

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Be kind, even on hard days

We all have difficult moments. Kindness is a choice we make even when it's not easy.

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Support, don't advise

Unless someone specifically asks for advice, offer presence and empathy rather than solutions.

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Refer to professionals when needed

If someone shares something that goes beyond peer support, gently point them toward findahelpline.com or professional help.

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Ready to find your people?

Every lily in this community started exactly where you are now โ€” wondering if they belonged, unsure of what to expect, maybe a little scared. They joined anyway. And they found something they didn't even know they were looking for. You belong here too.

No one should have to face this alone. That's not just something I say โ€” it's the reason Jotlily exists.

โ€” Sanni, Founder of Jotlily

Jotlily is a peer support community and is not a substitute for professional mental health treatment. If you are in immediate danger or experiencing thoughts of self-harm, please visit findahelpline.com or contact your local emergency services. Always consult a qualified professional for medical or therapeutic needs.